I went to an Indian restaurant and ordered lamb vindaloo. I was asked, "How hot do you want it"?
I said "I've never found anything in any restaurant that was too hot for me so I'd like it very hot, native Indian hot". The food came out and one bite told me I wouldn't be happy. The waiter came back and asked how I liked the dish? I told him I didn't like it at all, that it was too mild. "Oh", he said, "you wanted it
hot"! I never went back. I now say that I want the dish hot, hot as they make it in Goa and if it isn't hot, I'm not paying for it as I'm sending it back. I usually get a smile along with my spicy dish. I agree that things can be too hot though. I've never understood the appeal of Dave's Insanity Sauce. I think it's aimed at a macho college age crowd where one
tries to be macho by downing that stuff. Horrible, horrible sauce that has no decent flavor, just mind numbing heat. By the same token, if I'm at a new place and heat levels are offered, I
always ask, "Well, how hot is your hot"? I hope you left a generous tip as you ordered hot, you got hot. I look forward to trying hot chicken someday in Nashville as I'm told that I'll find out what my limit is.