I had bypass... almost 18 years ago, it will be 18 years in March. Yes, I was pretty young; I'm 55 now.
Nevertheless, I'm glad I did it. My brother refused to have surgery, he just had stents, and then re-stents, and re-stents. He died in October, he was 53.
My dad had his bypass surgery at 80 years old. Aside from some problems dealing with medications, he came through it pretty well.
The biggest thing is cardiac rehab, and based on what you've written you will breeze through it.
Things I remember from my surgery and recovery:
I woke up during the surgery. I remember opening my eyes and seeing the big light, someone saying, "He's coming up!" And then going right back under. From reading about this, I found out it is somewhat common.
I remember the post-op recovery room, and the machine that starts you breathing again; it will take 10 breaths for you, then after a while it takes 9 and you take one; then it takes 8 and you take 2; etc, until it is time to pull the tube out. The tube getting pulled out, that feels like having an alien yanked out through your mouth.
Amazingly, I was sitting up and eating within 12 hours, and walking (only a few yards, but walking) not long after. they don't let you sit around. I had one of the drain tubes come out; that sucked. I couldn't breathe.
I had some complications, a hospital staph infection that I later found out almost killed me. I was in the hospital and on some strong painkillers and antibiotics for about 10 days; during that time I was reading
Jurassic Park. WRONG book. I had some seriously wild daytime nightmares. I would read a chapter then drift off, drift off to being chased by raptors, wake up with my heart racing and the monitor going crazy.
I had a further complication, the surgeon had nicked a nerve, the one that moved my diaphragm on the left side and inflated that lung. I couldn't lay on my right side, because I couldn't get enough air without gasping. Eventually, it regenerated, after about 6 months. I credit cardiac rehab and respiratory therapy for that.
Speaking of respiratory therapy... When you are in serious pain, and don't want to hold that pillow up to your chest and force a cough to clear your lungs: DO IT ANYHOW. When you don't want to blow through that lung exerciser: DO IT. When it is sheer torture to try to suck that third ball up on the inspirometer: SUCK THE DAMN BALL UP. You will be glad you did later. Breathing is the key to avoiding pneumonia, which is the bane of chest surgery.
Good luck, Davydd. Look on the bright side, you have an excuse for not doing any work through the holidays. And would you do something for us here, because we care? Have someone coome to the forum and tell us when you are doing OK, after the surgery. Thanks.
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