RE: Steak Sauce, or not?
all condiments are a matter of preference.
Would you say, "if these fries NEED ketchup, I'm walking out"?!?
I should think that most steak houses would have steak sauce as an option, for people who like the taste of steak sauce on their steak.
It's not a question of whether the steak NEEDS steak sauce, it's whether or not you prefer to HAVE steak sauce or not.
I don't get offended when my brother puts hot sauce on just about everything I cook. Why?, because he puts hot sauce on just about everything he eats. The food I prepare, the food he prepares, the food he eats out, the food my mother makes, roadfood, you name it.
It's what he likes. How can I get offended? I have NO control over that. Sometimes, I add heat to his dish, because I know he like everything to be spicy. In my opinion, it can ruin my dish, but THAT'S how he eats his food. Hot, and spicy. I don't get offended, and I don't care.
so, if he asked for steak sauce, I'm confident it's not that the food I prepared was done incorrectly, it would be because, that's how he likes it.