Hot!I lost my Mom

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mar52
Sirloin
2013/11/13 13:08:45
I haven' been posting much lately because I've been with my Mom.
 
I lost her last night.  My beautiful Mommy is gone.
 
I'll be back in awhile, I just don't know when.  I'm a basket case.
 
My Mommy, Bernice Steinberg
 
She was the best and i don't know how I can live without her.
 

Michael Hoffman
Double-chop Porterhouse
Re:I lost my Mom 2013/11/13 13:15:23
Marlene, I am so terribly sorry for your loss. I know how much you loved your mother. Such a  loss is a terrible thing. You will manage.
ChiTownDiner
Filet Mignon
Re:I lost my Mom 2013/11/13 13:28:45
Sorry to hear...will keep you in my prayers! 
BuddyRoadhouse
Filet Mignon
Re:I lost my Mom 2013/11/13 13:35:21
My heart goes out to you Mar.  I'm very fortunate that both my folks are still alive and in relative good health.  But I know they're both getting "up there" and frequently think about how empty my life would be without them.
 
So sorry for your loss.  Stay strong.
 
Buddy
ChrisOC
Double Chili Cheeseburger
Re:I lost my Mom 2013/11/13 13:39:20
So sorry to hear that sad news.
Treetop Tom
Cheeseburger
Re:I lost my Mom 2013/11/13 13:42:12
Remember that a mother's greatest legacy is the wonderful children she raised.  I'm sure she was very proud of you.  Sorry for your loss.
 
A mother is a person who seeing there are only four pieces of pie for five people, promptly announces she never did care for pie. -Tenneva Jordan
Sundancer7
Fire Safety Admin
Re:I lost my Mom 2013/11/13 13:45:38
Mar, I share your loss as I lost my father27 years ago and now Mamaw Smith is 92.  She is still sharp and gets around with assistance, works a bit in the garden and I have coffee with her each morning at 5:00AM.  I always call her before I go next door and I always an anxious when she does not answer the phone.  I know that one morning when I call, she will not answer..  I have thought a thousand times how I would respond.  I am sure that I will be the first to find her,   Call my brother?  Call my daughter?  Have a few drinks?  hell I do not know.
 
Mar, I share your grief in advance and I am so sorry.
 
Paul E. Smith
Knoxville, TN
WarToad
Double Chili Cheeseburger
Re:I lost my Mom 2013/11/13 14:07:44
Mar - So sorry to hear of your loss.  Your current emotions speak volumes of what a wonderful mother and person she must have been.
 
God bless and please take care.
MetroplexJim
Filet Mignon
Re:I lost my Mom 2013/11/13 14:41:14
Mar, you have my heartfelt empathy; it's been nearly three years ago for me. 
 
May God Bless and give you Peace.
buffetbuster
Porterhouse
Re:I lost my Mom 2013/11/13 15:12:37
Mar, that is such a shame.  You have our deepest sympathies.
Glenn1234
Double Cheeseburger
Re:I lost my Mom 2013/11/13 15:42:36
 
We're very sorry to hear this.   Our deepest sympathies.
 
 
Glenn
 
 
Re:I lost my Mom 2013/11/13 17:09:07
Mar, I lost my Mother 15 years ago, I see her frequently in dreams. She is alive, funny, loving, all she was when alive, the dreams are reality when I'm asleep. I hope you have many wonderful times with your Mommy, from now on. It's not much help, but it does help me, a lot! A Hail Mary from me for you.
Tom
lleechef
Sirloin
Re:I lost my Mom 2013/11/13 17:11:36
So very sorry to hear this Mar.  You are in my thoughts and in my prayers.  Stay strong.
mayor al
Fire Safety Admin
Re:I lost my Mom 2013/11/13 17:12:15
Our thoughts and prayers of comfort are with you.
AL and Janet Bowen
Greymo
Filet Mignon
Re:I lost my Mom 2013/11/13 18:18:43
Mar,
I am so sorry for your loss  and,  having lived through this, I know how deep your pain is.  I will always remember how wonderful your Mother's Days meals were that you prepared for her.  It will take a long time and you will be in my prayers.
sizz
Double Chili Cheeseburger
Re:I lost my Mom 2013/11/13 18:24:14
 
Hang in there Marlene:
Here bring your wounded hearts, here tell your anguish;
Earth has no sorrow that Heaven cannot heal........Thomas More
CajunKing
Sirloin
Re:I lost my Mom 2013/11/13 20:17:02
Marlene -
 
Ha'makom yenahem etkhem betokh she'ar avelei Tziyonvi'Yerushalayim
 
Know that your friends are here and we share in your grief and your loss.
pnwchef
Filet Mignon
Re:I lost my Mom 2013/11/13 20:59:07
Mar, I am so sorry, I know how close you are to your Mom. I remember all the planning on Mothers Day. You were lucky to have such a close  loving relationship.............Our family will be thinking of you during your difficult time.............Bill, Joyce and Mollie
chefbuba
Double Chili Cheeseburger
Re:I lost my Mom 2013/11/13 21:42:28
Mar, sorry for your loss, stay strong.
I recently moved next door to my elderly parents and dread the day that no one responds to my "Yoo-Hoo" when I open the back door to check on them.
 
love2bake
Double Chili Cheeseburger
Re:I lost my Mom 2013/11/13 23:33:14
Mar, I'm so sorry. Thank you for letting us know.  It's so hard to lose a parent, and my heart goes out to you right now.  There's a big group hug for you here.
felix4067
Filet Mignon
Re:I lost my Mom 2013/11/13 23:48:16
I'm so sorry, Mar. I know you were very close to her, and I can't imagine how much you hurt right now. We're here when you want or need us, and I'm sending positive thoughts your way.
mar52
Sirloin
Re:I lost my Mom 2013/11/14 00:37:55
Thank you, everyone.
 
This is so hard. 
eruby
Double Cheeseburger
Re:I lost my Mom 2013/11/14 07:23:14
Very sorry to read this mar52.
 
I'm coming up on 3 1/2 years and it often feels like just yesterday.
 
Be as strong as you can be, and as weak as you need to be.
wanderingjew
Sirloin
Re:I lost my Mom 2013/11/14 07:23:29
Mar,
 
I'm so sorry to hear about your loss, please accept my sincere condolences. As you know I lost my mother nearly 6 years ago, so I do know what you're going through.  Hope your cherished memories eases your grief during this difficult time.
joerogo
Filet Mignon
Re:I lost my Mom 2013/11/14 10:58:39
Very sorry for your loss Marlene.  Joe
carolina bob
Filet Mignon
Re:I lost my Mom 2013/11/14 14:33:02
Marlene, my condolences on your loss. I lost my mother a decade ago and my father several years before that, and I can tell you that , while it may not seem like it now, it does get better with time. Stay strong and always cherish the good memories.
CCinNJ
Sirloin
Re:I lost my Mom 2013/11/14 16:51:01
My condolences Mar.

I'm certain your Mom was really proud to have you as a daughter...and it's easy to see that she was a fantastic & fun Mom. She'll be with you always.


You're in my prayers.
chicagostyledog
Filet Mignon
Re:I lost my Mom 2013/11/14 21:32:04
My deepest sympathy on the loss of your mom.
Mark Reitman
SeamusD
Double Chili Cheeseburger
Re:I lost my Mom 2013/11/15 01:17:54
I'm so sorry Mar. You're in my prayers also.
Foodbme
Porterhouse
Re:I lost my Mom 2013/11/16 01:11:40
We never lose our Mothers. They remain in our Hearts & Minds until we meet them again.
God Bless.
ann peeples
Sirloin
Re:I lost my Mom 2013/11/16 08:52:50
I am so sorry, Mar. I just saw this. I understand the pain...my best advice is to grieve as you want. Let no one tell you otherwise.
mar52
Sirloin
Re:I lost my Mom 2013/11/18 01:53:43
Thank you, everyone.

The funeral was Friday and friends and relatives have kept me busy.  I'm ready for some peace and quiet.

Mom and I were very close and emptiness in my heart hurts.  Although Mom was 86 and not well, I never dreamed I would lose her.  I wasn't ready.  Guess I'd never be ready.

Knowing I have friends all over the world makes me smile.  Smiles help.
 
Thank you, all of my friends.
ann peeples
Sirloin
Re:I lost my Mom 2013/11/18 03:25:11
Love you! Take good care.
Adjudicator
Sirloin
Re:I lost my Mom 2013/11/18 19:38:33
I just saw this.  My sincere condolences and may you and your loved ones cherish wonderful memories.
BelleReve
Double Chili Cheeseburger
Re:I lost my Mom 2013/11/21 12:54:40
mar52 - I'm so sorry about your mom's passing, I know it's especially difficult with the holidays approaching, and my prayers go with you. 
MellowRoast
Double Chili Cheeseburger
Re:I lost my Mom 2013/11/26 06:17:08
Mar, my deepest sympathies.  And I echo Ann's wonderful words.