Hot!I lost my Mom

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mar52
Sirloin
2013/11/13 13:08:45
I haven' been posting much lately because I've been with my Mom.
 
I lost her last night.  My beautiful Mommy is gone.
 
I'll be back in awhile, I just don't know when.  I'm a basket case.
 
My Mommy, Bernice Steinberg
 
She was the best and i don't know how I can live without her.
 

Michael Hoffman
Double-chop Porterhouse
Re:I lost my Mom 2013/11/13 13:15:23
Marlene, I am so terribly sorry for your loss. I know how much you loved your mother. Such a  loss is a terrible thing. You will manage.
ChiTownDiner
Filet Mignon
Re:I lost my Mom 2013/11/13 13:28:45
Sorry to hear...will keep you in my prayers! 
BuddyRoadhouse
Filet Mignon
Re:I lost my Mom 2013/11/13 13:35:21
My heart goes out to you Mar.  I'm very fortunate that both my folks are still alive and in relative good health.  But I know they're both getting "up there" and frequently think about how empty my life would be without them.
 
So sorry for your loss.  Stay strong.
 
Buddy
ChrisOC
Double Cheeseburger
Re:I lost my Mom 2013/11/13 13:39:20
So sorry to hear that sad news.
Treetop Tom
Cheeseburger
Re:I lost my Mom 2013/11/13 13:42:12
Remember that a mother's greatest legacy is the wonderful children she raised.  I'm sure she was very proud of you.  Sorry for your loss.
 
A mother is a person who seeing there are only four pieces of pie for five people, promptly announces she never did care for pie. -Tenneva Jordan
Sundancer7
Fire Safety Admin
Re:I lost my Mom 2013/11/13 13:45:38
Mar, I share your loss as I lost my father27 years ago and now Mamaw Smith is 92.  She is still sharp and gets around with assistance, works a bit in the garden and I have coffee with her each morning at 5:00AM.  I always call her before I go next door and I always an anxious when she does not answer the phone.  I know that one morning when I call, she will not answer..  I have thought a thousand times how I would respond.  I am sure that I will be the first to find her,   Call my brother?  Call my daughter?  Have a few drinks?  hell I do not know.
 
Mar, I share your grief in advance and I am so sorry.
 
Paul E. Smith
Knoxville, TN
WarToad
Double Chili Cheeseburger
Re:I lost my Mom 2013/11/13 14:07:44
Mar - So sorry to hear of your loss.  Your current emotions speak volumes of what a wonderful mother and person she must have been.
 
God bless and please take care.
MetroplexJim
Filet Mignon
Re:I lost my Mom 2013/11/13 14:41:14
Mar, you have my heartfelt empathy; it's been nearly three years ago for me. 
 
May God Bless and give you Peace.
buffetbuster
Porterhouse
Re:I lost my Mom 2013/11/13 15:12:37
Mar, that is such a shame.  You have our deepest sympathies.
Glenn1234
Double Cheeseburger
Re:I lost my Mom 2013/11/13 15:42:36
 
We're very sorry to hear this.   Our deepest sympathies.
 
 
Glenn
 
 
Re:I lost my Mom 2013/11/13 17:09:07
Mar, I lost my Mother 15 years ago, I see her frequently in dreams. She is alive, funny, loving, all she was when alive, the dreams are reality when I'm asleep. I hope you have many wonderful times with your Mommy, from now on. It's not much help, but it does help me, a lot! A Hail Mary from me for you.
Tom
lleechef
Sirloin
Re:I lost my Mom 2013/11/13 17:11:36
So very sorry to hear this Mar.  You are in my thoughts and in my prayers.  Stay strong.
mayor al
Fire Safety Admin
Re:I lost my Mom 2013/11/13 17:12:15
Our thoughts and prayers of comfort are with you.
AL and Janet Bowen
Greymo
Filet Mignon
Re:I lost my Mom 2013/11/13 18:18:43
Mar,
I am so sorry for your loss  and,  having lived through this, I know how deep your pain is.  I will always remember how wonderful your Mother's Days meals were that you prepared for her.  It will take a long time and you will be in my prayers.
sizz
Double Chili Cheeseburger
Re:I lost my Mom 2013/11/13 18:24:14
 
Hang in there Marlene:
Here bring your wounded hearts, here tell your anguish;
Earth has no sorrow that Heaven cannot heal........Thomas More
CajunKing
Sirloin
Re:I lost my Mom 2013/11/13 20:17:02
Marlene -
 
Ha'makom yenahem etkhem betokh she'ar avelei Tziyonvi'Yerushalayim
 
Know that your friends are here and we share in your grief and your loss.
pnwchef
Double Chili Cheeseburger
Re:I lost my Mom 2013/11/13 20:59:07
Mar, I am so sorry, I know how close you are to your Mom. I remember all the planning on Mothers Day. You were lucky to have such a close  loving relationship.............Our family will be thinking of you during your difficult time.............Bill, Joyce and Mollie
chefbuba
Double Chili Cheeseburger
Re:I lost my Mom 2013/11/13 21:42:28
Mar, sorry for your loss, stay strong.
I recently moved next door to my elderly parents and dread the day that no one responds to my "Yoo-Hoo" when I open the back door to check on them.
 
love2bake
Double Chili Cheeseburger
Re:I lost my Mom 2013/11/13 23:33:14
Mar, I'm so sorry. Thank you for letting us know.  It's so hard to lose a parent, and my heart goes out to you right now.  There's a big group hug for you here.
felix4067
Filet Mignon
Re:I lost my Mom 2013/11/13 23:48:16
I'm so sorry, Mar. I know you were very close to her, and I can't imagine how much you hurt right now. We're here when you want or need us, and I'm sending positive thoughts your way.
mar52
Sirloin
Re:I lost my Mom 2013/11/14 00:37:55
Thank you, everyone.
 
This is so hard. 
eruby
Double Cheeseburger
Re:I lost my Mom 2013/11/14 07:23:14
Very sorry to read this mar52.
 
I'm coming up on 3 1/2 years and it often feels like just yesterday.
 
Be as strong as you can be, and as weak as you need to be.
wanderingjew
Sirloin
Re:I lost my Mom 2013/11/14 07:23:29
Mar,
 
I'm so sorry to hear about your loss, please accept my sincere condolences. As you know I lost my mother nearly 6 years ago, so I do know what you're going through.  Hope your cherished memories eases your grief during this difficult time.
joerogo
Filet Mignon
Re:I lost my Mom 2013/11/14 10:58:39
Very sorry for your loss Marlene.  Joe
carolina bob
Filet Mignon
Re:I lost my Mom 2013/11/14 14:33:02
Marlene, my condolences on your loss. I lost my mother a decade ago and my father several years before that, and I can tell you that , while it may not seem like it now, it does get better with time. Stay strong and always cherish the good memories.
CCinNJ
Sirloin
Re:I lost my Mom 2013/11/14 16:51:01
My condolences Mar.

I'm certain your Mom was really proud to have you as a daughter...and it's easy to see that she was a fantastic & fun Mom. She'll be with you always.


You're in my prayers.
chicagostyledog
Filet Mignon
Re:I lost my Mom 2013/11/14 21:32:04
My deepest sympathy on the loss of your mom.
Mark Reitman
SeamusD
Double Chili Cheeseburger
Re:I lost my Mom 2013/11/15 01:17:54
I'm so sorry Mar. You're in my prayers also.
Foodbme
Porterhouse
Re:I lost my Mom 2013/11/16 01:11:40
We never lose our Mothers. They remain in our Hearts & Minds until we meet them again.
God Bless.
ann peeples
Sirloin
Re:I lost my Mom 2013/11/16 08:52:50
I am so sorry, Mar. I just saw this. I understand the pain...my best advice is to grieve as you want. Let no one tell you otherwise.
mar52
Sirloin
Re:I lost my Mom 2013/11/18 01:53:43
Thank you, everyone.

The funeral was Friday and friends and relatives have kept me busy.  I'm ready for some peace and quiet.

Mom and I were very close and emptiness in my heart hurts.  Although Mom was 86 and not well, I never dreamed I would lose her.  I wasn't ready.  Guess I'd never be ready.

Knowing I have friends all over the world makes me smile.  Smiles help.
 
Thank you, all of my friends.
ann peeples
Sirloin
Re:I lost my Mom 2013/11/18 03:25:11
Love you! Take good care.
Adjudicator
Sirloin
Re:I lost my Mom 2013/11/18 19:38:33
I just saw this.  My sincere condolences and may you and your loved ones cherish wonderful memories.
BelleReve
Double Chili Cheeseburger
Re:I lost my Mom 2013/11/21 12:54:40
mar52 - I'm so sorry about your mom's passing, I know it's especially difficult with the holidays approaching, and my prayers go with you. 
MellowRoast
Double Chili Cheeseburger
Re:I lost my Mom 2013/11/26 06:17:08
Mar, my deepest sympathies.  And I echo Ann's wonderful words.